суббота, 26 сентября 2009 г.

Работа с партнером – любовь – парная йога, бальные танцы, совместный проект по музыке, кино или театру или совместная компания по психологическим тренингам, совместные путешествия. There is no half of orange, you should just take any person of your level of energy and of your psichotype(approximately 1 % of people) and start to work with him/her. The main feature how you can define that person is that you feel a lot of curiosity to him/her along with the physical attraction. You want to know how this person breathes, talks, moves, thinks. First stage is that you learn how to interact with the person, you learn who is the person, what he likes what he wants in life, what is her or his lifestyle. And for that you need to do as many things together as possible. First step is to learn to talk to each other and to understand each other. Not to imagine, but really do understand –learn a state of objective observer. Many relationship already get boring only on this stage. Then it is not about love, it is just about your sexual unsatisfaction. You should satisfy it and then keep going on with the looking the right person for love, not just for sex. Maybe even u will change a lot of partners and it is ok. Try different people, and in this way u will learn better your own preferences of the qualities of people.
Second step is to learn to reach agreement – dominikan monk excersize. Is to learn to interact with each other – what things of hobby and household you like or dislike, what kind of things you would enjoy doing together – this is not bla-bla, but actions. You have to observe what person does, not what person says. Third step step is becoming a jedai’s of sex, not only enjoy sex, but really go high. Learn unblock your body, let yourself go with the flow, listen your feelings and sensations, learn game of erotic words, touches and presstouches –light, strong, tender and full of electricity.
Fourth step is to do big projects together. For example make a great exciting trip, create a company on giving workshops, website, house/castle, garden/rancho. To make a movie/musical album together. Bring your mutual hobby on the next level. Try to do the real artwork. Take your time and power. Make the brainstorm, make philosophy of your company, plan of development, steps, invent a name, create a team, get necessary items and learn skills.